LOVE.

"A partner is one who DOES NOT COMPLETE you but COMPLEMENTS you" -Karishma Mudaliar, Suva Fiji 

There’s no way you can ever be a hundred percent sure that he/she is the one. You don’t want to be sure. It’s a journey you know you are willing to take with someone and unveil all the uncertainties as it comes your way. Dating is quite tricky, one date can be enough to know if you want to be with that person for the rest of your life.  If you force yourself forward just because you need someone in your life, it’s futile.

Love is enough to allow someone in your life. Yet to keep complementing each other for life requires love, respect, honor, communication, knowledge, security, trust. Before one can expect to look for these in a partner, look at your own self. Are you willing to give all this back? Are you willing to be selfless, are you willing to be self sacrificing? It’s such a huge thing yet can be achieved so easily if one is willing.

Life comes in different phases. Some phase can go on for long years yet feels short lived and some can be only for a year but feels like ages. Contentment and faith helps you navigate your journey through your phases. You have to be willing to love yourself on every phase. Just like a new chapter of an exciting book is our life phases. Each chapter has to be read with enthuse, discovering your own self, learning about yourself and loving yourself. Then only will you reveal the phase of love in your life. Once you complete yourself you will find the one and recognize the one who will love you, grow with you. A broken heart cannot give love back unless it heals itself. A healed past nourishes a healthy future. A content heart will love without expectation and receive everlasting love. 

Love is like different seasons, sometimes too chilly sometimes warm and sunny. 

The love of my life has loved me everyday. Everyday we learn, grow in passion, we are vulnerable in a promising relationship while we continue our 7 years of long distance relationship. What we have is love and much more.

 We’ve been dating for seven years and met thrice. Always happy always blessed. Xx. 

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